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My wild gay expedition after a tumultuous year
So where is the relationship with my wife a year after the big reveal? This is Part 1 of my wild gay expedition after a tumultuous year.

A Quick Apology to my Loyal Readers
A quick apology to my readers for not posting for a while. However, I'll be starting again soon, so please stay posted. In the meantime, read this.

4 Weeks Later: Paying the Piper
A short post to update you. I was handed a letter by my wife. Quite hard to read. I guess paying the piper is part of the journey.

Two weeks later: Life is an Adventure
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Life is an adventure when you have a plan. I don't. But after the terror leading up to the big reveal, I have found a measure of inner peace.

Keep Repeating: Change is good.
Change is good. With change, however, the past comes back to haunt me. Although it has been buried for a long time, it is finally time to face it.

A Week After Coming Out as Gay
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Here is an update a week after coming out as gay to my wife. Things are still very tense, but I told the kids. We move on as a family.

G-Day: The Day I Came Out as Gay
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Monday 20th June, 2022. At the age of 59 years, 8 months and 6 days old, and two months after coming out to myself, I came out as gay to my wife.

Tempus Fugit: Time Flies When You're Having Fun
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Tempus Fugit – Time flies when you least want it to. I am close to resolution now. The final pieces are falling into place. The hour of truth now approaches.

The Surprisingly Powerful Session
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When my therapist asked me to read out a letter I had written to my wife, I had the most powerful session ever.

Staying Focused on What's Important
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These last few weeks have been turbulent so I've concentrated on staying focused on what happens after I come out. Do I really want this enough?